The LORD said to Satan, "Have you considered My servant Job? For there is no one like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man fearing God and turning away from evil. And he still holds fast his integrity, although you incited Me against him to ruin him without cause."
Then his wife said to him, "Do you still hold fast your integrity? Curse God and die!" But he said to her, "You speak as one of the foolish women speaks. Shall we indeed accept good from God and not accept adversity?" In all this Job did not sin with his lips.
Every joy or trial
Forget the middleman. Go to God. Go to God with trust. Whatever is happening, is happening for a reason. The reason is hidden in God, but God is a good God, so the reason is a good reason. God is not asking for your understanding, He is asking for your trust.
I will also add, don't take the advice of Job's wife.
For me to live is Christ.